Drama isn’t only seen on stage or TV but also in families. As social animals, we are able to think and argue that leads to family dramas. Also, there’s a lot of things that can trigger family dramas such as third party incident, loss of income, traumas, accidents, and a lot more.
But on top of it all, family dramas aren’t a good thing as they can affect mostly the children. In view of this, we are going to have a deeper understanding of how to handle family dramas and keep our children out of them through the following:
Spread Love within the Family
As parents, we have the responsibility of working out everything for the welfare of our family. We have a lot of mixtures needed to ensure that our family will be okay. One of the most important mixture to be included in our family is love. Some may feel cringe and awkward when expressing love to loved ones, but this is necessary. Love works like magic as it helps in molding bonds and connections for a lifetime. It can be through many ways, such as giving massages, kisses, hugs, cooking meals, or just simply being there. So, spreading love within the family is the first step in handling dramas.
The next step is to communicate, which can be done in lots of ways. First, we can have a serious talk about a certain family drama that can be resolved through calm conversations. Another thing is through making our family feel loved and cared for. Once they felt that we have our utmost gratitude and love to them, they will not be scared to open up and communicate to us.
Although communicating with our family can be difficult, especially if there are past traumas, everything will fall to its place once we take the first step.
Make Memories Together
The third on the list, we have to make memories together. As a family is composed of persons who share many things, especially love, memory-making must be done. Besides, there’s a lot of ways to do this, both outdoor and indoor. We can go to a camp, hike, fishing, road trip, travel, and more for the outdoors. On the other hand, we can cook meals together for the indoors, do gardening, play with the dogs, swim at the pool, and more.
We shouldn’t let any memory slip as it can be a piece that’ll complete our beingness as a part of our family. It can also help in our children’s development as a good family becomes an inspiration to them.
Lower Our Pride
Having pride isn’t a good thing, especially if we are dealing with a family drama. This will only keep our distance from our family. Either our family or we will have difficulties communicating due to pride. So, to keep a good relationship with our family, we must lessen our pride. We do this not only for our own but for our family’s welfare.
Avoid Arguing in front of the Children
Whatever our children see from us, such as arguing, they can do it too. As parents, we need to be role models to our children, and with that, we need to avoid arguing in front of them. If there’s something to talk about, it can be settled through a calm and private conversation. Also, we shouldn’t feel that comfortable in our home to the extent that we are going to do whatever we want. We need to keep in mind that we have children who are still developing, and one bad action from us can affect their growth.
Another, the scenario of arguing and raging late at night is also not recommended. We can wake the children up, and they have no other choice but to listen to our dramas. This is bad since we cannot be aware of its effects on our children as they can be silent about it. So, let us learn to be calm at all times and talk about every misunderstanding properly.
These tips are only some to handle family dramas without letting our children get involved effectively. By applying the mentioned tips, we can see to it that we are able to grow with our family for the better.